Hey man, everyone has their own opinions, there own ways of doing things thats what makes this hobby so open. I am pretty confident in both my mentors, and the decisions they make in helping me with situations of hots. One of them has over 20 yrs experiance which means you were probly still in diapers.
So I think I will go with what he has to teach me, considering hes kept many many specimens, and well not getting tagged. They arent toys, they are to be respected, I want to learn and know what there is to about them. So I would appreachiate it if the opions of a 13 year old telling me how to handle my hots be withheld, and if you have some negative things to add (which I didnt take your comment on my picture very possitive) then PM them to me, or just keep it to yourself. Thats the last thing this site and hobby needs, is negativity.
So if you are done, you can now climb off your high horse, and go about your evening.